The principal looked at me quite uneasily. He seemed as if he wanted to say something to me, but stop short of saying anything.   Me:  "You said my mum would have 6 children back then, but there's only 5 now. Did I have an older brother?"   Principal:  "Well, your mother was getting exhausted from being made pregnant and giving birth for 6 straight years after the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th child. We determined that she has lost the willpower to have another, so we let her have a break and had the 5th as the final one. You noticed that, in that video, there was a male child, but you recalled that they said that the baby was the first child. You also noted that, including you, there are only 5 children in the family, and you didn't have an older brother. Well, that baby was... er..."   Me:  "What happened to him? He died before I was born?"   After quite a number of hesitation, he picked up the confidence to say it.   Principal:  "That baby didn't d...